Should we be afraid of failure
Fear of failure
Failure in school is a word which now a days is getting very common .Some of the students who are not able to perform good are advised either to take TC or repeat one year. Most of the students which have been advised this is not able to perform consistently throughout the year. Now the most of the parents think that the repetition is wastage of time, so by using their contacts or money they will be able to make him/her to go for next class in same school or in other school. I want to ask from readers of this blog which way is correct and why?
My opinion is that if they have to grow they have to face the failure. otherwise they will not be able to enjoy success .There are so many stories regarding success after failure .Few years back I got a student from reputed school who get failed in eleventh ,instead of taking as fate ,he make list of errors he committed and decided to work hard. He gets selected in various engineering exam.
Why parents do not understand that coping with failure is part of the journey which is called life. By taking them away from this experience they will never be able to induced requirement of hard work.
Some of the students who come in XI starts preparing for competitions exam by considering the competition syllabus to be different than school syllabus .But it is not so, most of the competitive exams example IIT JEE ,are now more syllabus based ,First you have to develop good understanding of concepts and then gradually improve your application skill. I want my readers to write their comments so that this discussion may be continued.